I’m hiding now. The past week has been tough and I’m not sure if it’s the full moon or what it is, but I’ve fallen back into old coping patterns.
Since Shane and I broke up, I’ve trusted twice and been burned twice; once pretty brutally. I have learned my lesson. It’s not that I shouldn’t let anyone in, but that I need to be very careful and mindful about who I let in. Not everyone deserves a chance and I need them to prove they are worthy first, instead of assuming they are until they show me otherwise. I feel like that should be common sense, but for me it isn’t as I’m inherently trusting and oddly naive. I just don’t like operating with walls up. I want to live and love freely, but I keep getting hurt and it comes to a point where I have to be smart and learn my lesson.
My focus needs to continue to be on my kiddos and myself. Our future. I need to love myself fully. I’m getting there, minus this past week. One of my best friends messaged me last night to check in because I’ve been quiet. I withdraw when I’m not feeling well and I really appreciated that she noticed. I didn’t really realize I had withdrawn.
I spent a beautiful morning with my youngest, just the two of us. She’s wild and full of life. She feels so deeply, about everything, and I’m so in love with her little soul. I spent the afternoon with my oldest, just the two of us. It was also an incredible time. We talk about literally anything and everything. She has such an old soul and has a level of life understanding and wisdom that I am forever in awe of. Those two girls feed my soul and I would be so lost without them. I love how different they are. My oldest is calm and steady and my youngest is wild and untamed. I wouldn’t have them any other way.
This post is all over the place but I’m okay with that. I use this blog as my open diary anyway and no one really reads it anymore so it’ll continue to be all over the place haha.